Is it driving you crazy waiting for your ex-boyfriend to come back to you? Do you wish that you knew when he would come back or what you can do to speed this whole process up? You're sure that he still loves you and that in time he will remember how much he loves you but in the meantime the waiting is killing you.
You don't want to push things and make matters worse. You understand this. You know that if you become needy and beg him to come back to you that it will push him away. Yet, the loneliness is driving you mad and you're afraid that the more time that passes, the more likely he is to find someone else or maybe another woman will come along and steal him away from you. But, what can you do? You are a prisoner of your own life at the moment, right?
While patience is a virtue, it is also something that not many of us possess as a character trait. This is especially true when it comes to important things in our life like relationships. Unfortunately, the more impatient you are right now with your boyfriend, the long it's going to take to get him back. There is just something about relationship dynamics that cause many men to be repulsed by women who are pushy or clingy. By trying to contact him or doing anything that might be perceived as an attempt to get back together with him, you are only going to make things worse or even push him into the arms of another woman.
Instead, try focusing on yourself for at least one week. Do things that are going to make you happy and help you to not only pass the time but to rebuild your self-esteem? Time will pass more quickly if you are doing something other than trying to figure out how to get him back. Of course, he will always be in the back of your mind but replace those thoughts with memories of how things were when you were together and what things are going to be like when you are back together.
Go shopping or visit friends that you haven't seen in a while. Read a good book or pick up a bunch of movies to lift your mood. Comedies are great for overcoming the blues that often come after a breakup and a good positive and optimistic attitude will be more attractive to your boyfriend than being depressed, sad and lonely. This is just basic male psychology and relationship dynamics at work, my friend.
Once you understand how he thinks and what motivates a man to want to get back together with you, waiting won't be a problem. Once you know for sure that he will come back, the wait always seems much shorter.
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