Losing the love of your life is not an easy process. If you are going through that your journey might be a little easier if you know these three keys to letting go your partner.
KEY 1
Understand what your partner really wants
For a person losing a partner and that partner dead set on divorcing after a year of separation things can be pretty trying. Trying the come to grips with the fact that your partner does not want you anymore can be a hard process indeed, but its something that you have to face, not matter what has been said and done. Your former spouse has their reasons why they want to let go of the relationship and the first thing you need to do is understand why they feel that way, and that s not so you can talk them around, but that s so you can see the reason and find some peace in it.
I have to be frank here. I was a mess when my partner told me she wanted me to leave and that she wanted to officially separate. On the day some 14 months later when she divorced me, I was crushed but over the years I have come toe realize why she left me and gave up on our marriage. I have to say that I don t hold her to blame for anything, I was a lot to handle at the time.
KEY 2
Understand that God works in mysterious ways.
While it s true that God hates divorce he certainly isn t against allowing tragedy to come into our life in order to make us into better people. It s been over 14 years since I broke up with my former wife and I love her more today then when we were together. God has been able to do a lot of work on me as a single man that He might not have been able to do while I was married.
Some people God wants all to himself. It might be hard to get your attention when you have a love in your life, but when your break up you can be sure that God wants to fill that void in your life with His love. Since my wife and I broke up my relationship with Jesus and God the Father has grown to levels that could have only be formally dreamt about.
Now is about the time that it would be good of God to restore my relationship with her. That would be a good thing, but not a thing that I expect God to do for me, rather it is only His will that I want done.
Our God is a mighty God and a God that wants all of His people to love Him. It isn t beyond him to allow what is going on in your life to bring you closer to Himself. Take the opportunity and get to know Him better.
KEY 3
See things from eternal perspective
God is into carving out our character and there is nothing like a divorce to cause much pain in ones life. Use that pain to grow. Seek out a counselor, preferably a prayer counselor that you can go to, to address your pain. Losing a life partner is something almost too big to recover from, but recover you must as God has a future for you and plans for your life. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11 (New King James Version)
Let me pray for you.
Father
I can only imagine the pain in this person s life. If they love their partner as I did they would be in a place that is very hard to bear. I ask that you might comfort them and send good people into their lives to comfort them. I ask that you might comfort them and bring yourself close to them. I ask that you lead them into the hands of a powerful counselor and that you lead them every step of the way ahead. I pray also that their former partner might find some peace in this very difficult time.
In Jesus name I ask
Amen
Author Resource:
Matthew is a man that is in love with Jesus Christ. He shares the Word of God in a fresh way you might say and has a lot of new truths to share. He loves to open up his heart and life to illustrate his messages. Come and request your free prophecy at http://www.personal-prophecy-free.net
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